Apologies
first of all. This post isn’t so much a
blog post, but more a reminder to my future self.
Sometimes
you just have to write things down to remind yourself. I’m not talking about a “must remember to buy
carrots” reminder here, I’m talking about having an experience, or a
realisation and writing it down so that your future self doesn’t make the same
judgement call/assumption again.
The
lesson I have to remember today is not to self sabotage. Not to presume that something happened for a
reason that you can’t possibly know.
So
this is my note to the future me.
Dear
Future Me,
Stop
being such a bloody idiot.
If
a guy finds you attractive, if a guy calls you beautiful and you believe him
(something I never ever do usually), then the reason why he broke things off is
therefore NOT for the way you look.
Also,
trying to be someone you aren’t just to stay in a relationship you already know
isn’t going to work is also stupid.
Trying to be someone else full stop is stupid. Insecurity isn't attractive.
Be
yourself. Always be yourself. It will probably turn out that the person you
actually are is what they actually saw in you in the first place.
Yours,
The
idiotic person who is still trying to work things out.
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