Unless you have been living under a rock, you will no doubt have seen on Twitter the explosion that has been the #WeAreTheThey hashtag. It started from a wonderful idea of Debz at WannaBe Princess after the comments of the professional rent-a-gob, sorry, "singer" Jamelia and later, Fiona "my career is so shit I now have to advertise the postcode lottery" Phillips.
They are both in agreement that people under and over a certain weight (qualified as under a 6 and above a 20 by way of an "apology" from said rent-a-gob) should have to shop at specialty shops rather than the high street as:
They should be made to feel uncomfortable when they can't go in and find a size
I am tired. Tired of fat people being the last socially allowed prejudice in society. The problem is that it is not just the atypical prejudiced people; those who used to be openly racist and homophobic (and whom probably still are behind closed doors) who fat shame, insult, criticize and attempt to humiliate others, it is society as a whole.
Hate against fat people is an epidemic which will not go away overnight and will not unless the subject is discussed more and hashtags like #WeAreTheThey are publicized.
As a fat women I am told that I can have a pretty face but my body "ruins it". I am presumed to be stupid, have ill health, be lazy and be an out of work "benefit scrounger". I am none of these things but it should not matter if I was. I am a person, deserving of the same respect that everyone gets. I am not a sub species.
I am tired of the number of your dress size being the way in which you are defined and treated.
I am tired of people telling a fat woman that she is "brave" for wearing a sleeveless dress, a shorter hemline or brighter colours. She is not brave, she is merely confident in how she looks. She has a good body image. If you cannot do the same, find your confidence; do not disparage others for something that you wished you possessed, but do not.
That, in so many ways is what fat shaming really boils down to. Why some many people are angry about something that effects them in no way, shape or form. Why other people's bodies are allowed to be insulted open season. It is jealousy. Not because they wish they looked like you or had the same body shape, but because they wish they had your confidence. Your positive body image. Your happiness.
How many people do you know who own the body they have? Who does not want to change their body/face/shape/weight. Our bodies are constantly being compared, both by ourselves and by others to what is termed as the perfect body or as Protein World might put it "Beach Body Ready".
Time and again I see wonderful things happening in the plus size blogging world. I see readers who (like me once) read plus size blogs and want that confidence for themselves. The over time the comments of "I wish I had the confidence in myself to wear that" become "here is a picture of me wearing what I never thought I could".
I see women who have previously let society define who they are and how happy they are allowed to be, emerge like a butterfly coming out of a chrysalis into happy, confident women. It is inspiring and beautiful to watch.
#WeAreTheThey is not just about women under a size 6 and over a size 20, it has been become about all women, taking a stand and refusing to let others tell them that the way that they look is wrong. You are entitled to your own happiness. Do not EVER let someone tell you that you aren't.
I am tired of the number of your dress size being the way in which you are defined and treated.
I am tired of people telling a fat woman that she is "brave" for wearing a sleeveless dress, a shorter hemline or brighter colours. She is not brave, she is merely confident in how she looks. She has a good body image. If you cannot do the same, find your confidence; do not disparage others for something that you wished you possessed, but do not.
That, in so many ways is what fat shaming really boils down to. Why some many people are angry about something that effects them in no way, shape or form. Why other people's bodies are allowed to be insulted open season. It is jealousy. Not because they wish they looked like you or had the same body shape, but because they wish they had your confidence. Your positive body image. Your happiness.
How many people do you know who own the body they have? Who does not want to change their body/face/shape/weight. Our bodies are constantly being compared, both by ourselves and by others to what is termed as the perfect body or as Protein World might put it "Beach Body Ready".
I see women who have previously let society define who they are and how happy they are allowed to be, emerge like a butterfly coming out of a chrysalis into happy, confident women. It is inspiring and beautiful to watch.
#WeAreTheThey is not just about women under a size 6 and over a size 20, it has been become about all women, taking a stand and refusing to let others tell them that the way that they look is wrong. You are entitled to your own happiness. Do not EVER let someone tell you that you aren't.
