If you rounded up 10 people and
individually asked them what their “type” was, I guarantee that you would get
10 different answers.
Tall or short, shy or outgoing;
blonde or brunette; sports fan or film addict; plus size or model thin; silly
or serious; the combinations are endless.
There is not one standard type for everyone. We are not the human equivalents of Ken and
Barbie. We all have brains, and those
brains are turned on by a variety of things.
My personal preference? Tall and
confident. Confidence to me is sexy.
What I want to know then is why
when we all like different things, do people seem to love to pick others apart.
You’re too fat, you’re too thin; your
nose is too big; you’re stupid; you’re too loud, you’re too quiet.
Nobody is “too” anything.
You are you. You are unique. No one else is exactly like you, be it
physically or emotionally. Personally,
I think that’s awesome.
I was asked this morning if I was
going on a diet for my New Year’s Resolution.
The first thing that entered my head was to say “No, but are you going
to save up for a nose job?”. Luckily I
didn’t say that, I just called them a ruder version of an idiot.
Our brains shouldn’t be wired in
to insult others. Mine went into attack
mode this morning and I’m angrier about that than what the person said. My first thought shouldn’t have been to
insult back, it should have been to realise that if they are insulting others,
trying to make them feel bad, it’s more likely that they feel bad about
themselves.
We are individuals, with
individual tastes. We don't all look the same, nor think the same. Why should we? We should celebrate
the differences between people, not fault them.
So that is my New Year’s resolution
for this year. To celebrate what is
different about me.
I am not a lemming.
