18 May 2012

We All Deserve Respect

I'm an atheist.  I believe that we are in charge of our own destiny and that there is no all powerful creator up there running the show.  That's my choice to believe that.

I fully believe in freedom of choice and if that means that you have religion in your life, be it Christianity, Hindusim, Buddism, whatever your particular choice may be, then you are free to have it.  We each have the choice to decide who we are, what we do and whether we choose to believe in a particular religion or not.

I have in the past, I admit, occasionally made jokes about Easter on a social media site which at the time I thought was funny.  It was, quite rightly, pointed out to me that the platform I was using had both non believers and believers there and perhaps my joke was out of taste.  In hindsight it was out of taste, and wrong for me to say, and I'm sorry for it.

We need to respect other people's choices and not make fun of, or judge them.  I wouldn't expect a Christian to come up to me and tell me I was going to burn in hell for being an atheist any more than I would expect an atheist to go up to a Buddist and start making jokes about them, and their religion.  It's called mutual respect.

Recently though Cardinal Cormac Murphy-O'Connor crossed that line.  He was quoted in saying that 

"Secular values were behind the violence carried out in totalitarian states and some of the 20th century conflicts that have killed millions".
What I could say now is "People in glass houses should not throw sounds".  I could then start naming various dictators and leaders who have themselves and through their actions killed millions, but I won't.

That sort of thing turns into a game of "Well he did that so I did this".

I suspect that the Cardinal is really actually angry because he doesn't have as much power and sway over people as he, and indeed the Church, once had. 

No religion belongs in politics, healthcare and the way people can lead their lives.  It may have been the ways things were done in the past, and indeed in some countries it still is, but in Great Britain you have people from many religions with different beliefs and you cannot have one rule for one, one rule for another.

 

17 May 2012

Consumer Whore

Someone sent this to me and it gave me a giggle.  So I've done it myself and here are the results.

RULES:
1. Put your mp3 player on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS.
4. Tag whoever you want including me (this was from Facebook)
5. Have Fun!

IF SOMEONE SAYS 'ARE YOU OKAY' YOU SAY....?
Lifted - Lighthouse Family (not bad so far!)

HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF?
Toxic  - Britney Spears   (ROFL!)

WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A GUY/GIRL?
One and Only - Teitur (I swear, that was the next song.  It's beautiful by the way, get it in your life)

HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
Rock Around the Clock - Bill Haley & the Comets

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE?
 Space Cowboy - Jamiroquai (this is awesome!!!)

WHAT'S YOUR MOTTO?
My Funny Valentine - Billie Holiday

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
Inside - Stiltskin

WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
Hello - Martin Solveig

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
I Think We're Alone Now - Tiffany (holy crap I can't believe I'm admitting I even have that song!)

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
Something to Sing About - Buffy!!!!!!!!!!!


WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
Sex on Fire - Kings of Leon  (yeah wishful thinking lol)


WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING
Lollipop - Mika (er no, I'm not)W

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
Don't Stop - Roc (at my funeral, I think I will have!)


WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
Song 2 - Blur


WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST FEAR?
Semi Charmed Life - third eye blind


WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
Great Balls of Fire - Jerry Lee Lewis (oh crap, going to get stick for this one)

WHAT DO YOU WANT RIGHT NOW?
Price Tag - Jessie J (no, I've spent far too much this week!)

WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS AS?
Consumer Whore - Lemon Demon

11 May 2012

Thought of the Day

No matter how much you want people to like you, never change yourself in order to make that happen. 

If you follow the majority, only think what your friends think and do what people expect you to do, rather than what you want, one day you will look in the mirror and although the reflection may be the same, you will see the eyes of a stranger.

It unfortunately took for me to enter my 30's before I realised that the things that are odd about you, the things that make you different from everyone else, are the things that are most special and should be encouraged, not surpressed. 

So hi, I'm Vicky.  I'm odd, querky and I have a tendancy to rant.  Probably a bit more mental sometimes that I would normally admit.  I don't care.  I love it.  I'm myself.